What Our Slaves Say
Releasing the Dom - A journey from slave to Master
From Master-in-Training Alacrity
It is easy being a sub. You do what you're told, follow instructions, try to please your Dominants and try not to make any mistakes. With pain comes pleasure, discipline yields approval, mastery of yourself brings fulfillment and satisfaction. All this creates a satisfying and stable relationship between the Master and the slave. But I wanted more.
I met Master and Madame approximately six years ago at a restaurant that held monthly BDSM meetings for a group in Massachusetts. I was intrigued yet nervous when approaching them, there was an aura of control and power that they both exhibited. They offered an invitation to come to La Domaine for a session. It was not like any of the trips that I had made to S&M houses in the city. There was far greater involvement including training of being a good slave and reacting to the needs and desires of Master and Madame. After just a few sessions I was asked to enroll in the acolyte-training program. Eagerly I agreed and thus began a more serious and intensive teaching of what is expected and required of a suitably trained slave. As I learned, I grew. I saw the effort that they put into my training to become more than I was. I was given the opportunity to see the other side and appreciate what it takes to become a Domme.
Master showed me some of his rope bondage techniques and how to handle a whip. He had me practice on other slaves and I enjoyed being on the other side, so to speak. The M.I.T. (Master-in-training) program was offered to me in which I would still be slave but I would be allowed to domme other slaves in the household. One of my concerns is that although I love to master, I too easily revert to slave mode when in the presence of a powerful Domme, even when I don't intend to. I assume my early upbringing has a lot to do with it, being a people pleaser. This is something that I want to work on. It's an on-going process to not only be a Master of slaves, but to be a Master among Masters. I am still learning, but with the help of Master R, I know that I will be able to achieve that status both in his eyes and in mine. The Journey continues.
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