La Domaine Esemar is unique among contemporary BDSM training facilities. To begin with, La Domaine is far more than a simple professional dungeon. Esemar is a private home where people can explore their complex sexuality for periods of time ranging from basic, short training sessions to a lifetime’s commitment, shared with our remarkable lineage of Mistresses, Masters, and slaves. La Domaine offers insight, guided personal development, and camaraderie to all our clients. Our Mistresses and Masters are among the finest in the world, with personal backgrounds in the most extensive training program one can find today. Because of this, the slaves and Dominants we train are easily recognized by the knowing eye.

Our guests are extraordinary. We are fond of saying that we host the most delicate beginners as well as the most sophisticated players. For many, La Domaine is the first step into a much broader world of sexuality. Others, far more advanced in our persuasion, bring us their many experiences. They add polish and depth to Esemar. Some visit for only hours, some shall be with us for as long as we are privileged to exist. For those who find they have a place in their sexuality to serve as a household member at a great BDSM training chateau, we offer placements in our personal, non-professional acolyte programs.

In addition, we offer Couples Parties, dungeon rentals, overnight, weekend and week long getaways, workshops, fine food and wine, and other very special events.

It has been more than a decade since Skin Two Magazine’s writers visited and commented on our high level of BDSM, We have improved greatly since then. We welcome couples and individuals who wish to share in our excitement.

Fear we may be too advanced for you?