text-pictureLa Domaine is far more than a simple professional dungeon. Esemar is a private home where people can explore their complex sexuality for periods of time ranging from basic, short training sessions to a lifetime’s commitment, shared with our remarkable lineage of Mistresses, Masters, and slaves. We offer insight, guided personal development, and camaraderie to all our clients.

Our Mistresses and Masters are among the finest in the world, with personal backgrounds in the most extensive training program one can find today. Because of this, the slaves and Dominants we train are easily recognized by the knowing eye.

Our guests are extraordinary. We are fond of saying that we host the most delicate beginners as well as the most sophisticated players. For many, La Domaine is the first step into a much broader world of sexuality.

Others, far more advanced in our persuasion, bring us their many experiences. They add polish and depth to Esemar. Some visit for only hours, some shall be with us for as long as we are privileged to exist.

For those who find they have a place in their sexuality to serve as a household member at a great BDSM training chateau, we offer placements in our personal, non-professional acolyte programs.

In addition, we offer Couples Parties, dungeon rentals, overnight, weekend and week long getaways, workshops, fine food and wine, and other very special events.

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  • "Submissives at La Domaine do not surrender their individuality. Rather they are expertly led in a journey of self-discovery and broadening horizons. For me that discovery has led me to further embrace the female within me, and to find that I much prefer (and am more comfortable) being led than being the leader. As always, my breasts tingle as they anticipate being cross-hatched by the tip of my Mistress Couple's lash."

    Blue eyes
  • "I attended your discussion at UAlbany this evening. I wanted to thank you, I enjoyed myself, and it was a good way for my vanilla friends to learn a little about the 'freaky stuff I do in the bedroom' without judgement. Educators like you are important and I am grateful for the opportunity to have attended your lecture."

    College Student K
  • "The experience was incredible for us in many ways.  Thanks for your easy way with us and your openness in dealing with our concerns. You hold a special place for us in that you are responsible for opening up a new world in which we can continue to provide each other with what we crave."

  • "The Domaine Dommes have a unique perspective. The Madame and Master are two of the most intense, talented and dedicated Dominants I have ever met…Their slaves reminded me of what it was that attracted me to this field."

    Mademoiselle Gwan Ying, Pandora's Box Magazine, 1997
  • "High Level SM."

    Skin Two Magazine, Issue 20
  • "I sit listening to Beethoven's 7th quartet and think of La Domaine. Waking earlier, before masturbating, so many gifts from La Domaine popped into my head. Friendship, love and sex commingled. Sometimes I think just the power of giving turns the world at La Domaine. Thank you Madame, and Master, for your kindness, your abilities, and for your love."

  • "I highly recommend this informal and instructional getaway, and believe you will find it to be a supremely sensual experience."

    A. Ehmann Penthouse Forum
  • "My wife, my rope slut, and I spent our (delayed) honeymoon with Master R and Mistress Collette this spring. Thank you both for a truly wonderful weekend. You have created a truly mystical place."

    Rope Knut
  • "Thank you so much... for everything. You and your family really gave me some of the most joyful and insightful days of my life."

    Domme Jaguar, Mexico City
  • "I am thankful. Truly thankful that a place such as La Domaine exists. One may visit this BDSM chateau for a variety of personal reasons. From personal experience, this is a place for those searching for a deeper and more meaningful connection within the realm of 'kink'. The individuals and the environment within La Domaine are genuine, where unexpected opportunities for self discovery are made possible. Thank you Master R and Mistress Couple for continuing to make all this possible."

    Slave Ears
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