Couples Parties


The La Domaine Esemar Couples' Parties are one of the most extra- ordinary offerings at the chateau. They are all that we hoped to achieve in the Chateau private gatherings. Six to eight couples, two to three invited individuals (who match the interests of the couples), Master R, the La Domaine Mistresses and Masters, house and personal slaves, a very special Guest Mistress and her guests make up the list of attendees.

The Guest Mistress is usually someone renown in the scene, a Domina who appreciates the values that the La Domaine family shares. The list of Mistresses who have attended in the past includes the cream of the crop selection of today's finest Professional Dominas from around the country, a few of the retired greats, and the occasional young Domina who catches our attention as someone with exceptional promise. We invite the Dominas that we feel would most enjoy and benefit from La Domaine, while at the same time, bringing us their best insights and critiques as they get to know us. Many of our past Guest Dominas have become valued members of the Esemar family.

The interests of the Guest Mistress determine the nature of the party. When we have an extreme sadist, we put together an appropriate guest list. Likewise with cross-dressing, pony play and the whole spectrum of what could, and does, occur at a chateau party.

We have an extraordinary array of regular couples and individuals who make up the extended Esemar family and attend the parties. Many of these guests have trained at Esemar, as submissives or Dominants. In the midst of these people, who have been to parties here before, we often have one or two couples that are making their first party visit. It is not uncommon for this to be their initial step in sharing their sexuality in any setting. These guests often spend their first party sitting quietly on the couch, simply observing, until they become so aroused that they suddenly disappear, usually zooming deliriously back to their near-bye hotel room to ravish each other. Hopefully we see them the next morning, at the eleven o'clock reunion brunch. If not, we almost always see them at the next available party opening. The experienced couples keep the excitement going through the night, with play at the most riveting levels of skill and intimacy. They drift back to their hotels between two and five in the morning, returning sleepy and still aroused for the brunch. The brunch usually begins at about eleven and continues until two in the afternoon. It is the afterglow, when warm conversation occurs, new friendships are cemented, highlights of the night past are shared and sudden and spontaneous outbreaks of play erupt.

Parties are open to people who have visited La Domaine or who have been referred by a person who has visited. We carefully structure these parties. Our intent is to consistently provide a well-balanced group, in which people can share, learn, and grow. We do not hesitate to tell people that a particular party is not appropriate for their attendance. Likewise, we frequently contact people if we feel that they should attend a particular event. Discretion is of the utmost importance. We insist that people at an Esemar party do not discuss the particulars of their party with anyone who was not in attendance.

Our parties are usually fully reserved between two weeks and a month prior to their date.