Philosopher George Santayana’s definition of love captures its essence with beautiful simplicity: a physical drive with an ideal intent. Ceremonies are a heartfelt way to declare your love with clear intentions, and pay homage to the dynamic that you’ve created. Whether it is a naming ceremony, collaring ceremony, wedding ceremony, a civil union, renewal of vows, or any other ceremony you and your special someone are planning to affirm your love and commitment to each other, we at La Domaine take pride in creating the perfect experience together with you.

Reverend Lady Hawk, lovingly known as the High Priestess of La Domaine, is an experienced interfaith-interspiritual minister and licensed wedding officiant. Allow her to craft a ceremony reflecting YOU and your unique relationship.


Collaring and Piercing Ceremonies

Very few things in the BDSM lifestyle are more significant than the collar or special jewelry worn by a slave.  These are the outward displays of ownership, symbolizing the union between the Dominant and submissive. Collaring and piercing are symbols of true devotion. Neither is a decision to be made quickly and tossed aside in a week or two.  They are commitments that have the power to bind people together for a lifetime. Be sure you are ready to uphold the tradition behind the symbol before offering or accepting it.


 Naming Ceremony

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What’s in a name? We see the names that we bestow upon our slaves as a psychological guidepost for their journey into submission. Naming isn’t taken lightly here. We will discuss your dynamic with your slave, the areas they need help in, what your hopes and desires are for their growth, and will then guide you to select the appropriate name based on those things.


Wedding Ceremony 

Whether you want a short and simple wedding, an elaborate wedding, or somewhere in between, Reverend Lady Hawk will take the time and get to know you and work to create the ceremony that reflects your relationship. She does not use, write, or officiate cookie cutter weddings. Even the most basic wedding will have a variation to reflect who you are as individuals and who you are becoming as a couple. Mistress Edge joyfully officiates wedding ceremonies for all loving and committed couples; this includes same-sex weddings in New York and other states that recognize marriage equality.


Birthday Celebrations

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 Birthdays are special at La Domaine. Need we say any more?